Mom's of Divorce

They never say marriage is forever in your vows...I have witnessed that 100%. My husband and i have decided that divorce is the right choice...for us not her...my daughter..who still asks when am i going to see you mommy....is it wrong to hate and love your ex husband at the same time. He at one point was wonderful, but since lawyers have been involved he has gone into the transformation into a person I don't even recogonize. I love my daughter, I have made horrible mistakes in parenthood but I love my daughter and I'm struggling with what to do with a ex-husband who wants to crusivize me!!